By: Leah Otte

Leah Otte — Sun, 13 Mar 2011 19:25:44 +0000

Dating!!! I actually do not use this word at all. I prefer to describe it as an interview process. Coming together and discovering what the other really desires and revealing if you are on the same path. We are all adults, be honest and tell the other what you want! , if it does not match up… NEXT!!! If we only realised how liberating it is to be clear and truthful! Why? do we twist, contort and manipulate situations to equate to something it will never be! What a waste of time and energy. Some of us hold so tightly to mediocre, we block the universe from from allowing Mr. Wonderful to come our way. One will only get what one gives and that includes what we give to ourselves. If you do not love yourself, take care of yourself, give yourself attention, you will not get that from another. So what do you want???
Ladies, it is okay to be in a time period of “your life” that all you want to do is – connect twice a month for a day, with your man… have wild passionate sex and play!!! 🙂 If this seems wrong ask your heart and soul if this is really not a fit for you? Or is it because mommy told you it was bad?!!! That would be a subconscious belief, clear it out and live!! Go for it, have fun!
Once you have awoken to your consciousness it becomes more and more relevant to have a body, mind and soul connection. This doesn’t mean that you are not allowed to have causal relationships with others, just don’t title it and be present when you come together, go with the flow and connect in all levels. Make him Mr. Right NOW! In joy, bliss and happiness!!!
Erol explains this beautifully in his “be in the F.L.O.W.” blog entry (September 2010)
Kabbalah teaches us that genuine love is about unconditional sharing with another soul. The key word here is unconditional, meaning that there is no “hidden” agenda. There are no strings attached to the love one gives. There is no forethought given to what one will receive in return. Love means finding joy in the act of giving and seeing the happiness and gratification of the other person.
Ladies, many of us have very little to no need for a man; our generation has been programmed to do everything for ourselves and to depend on no man! Remember the one thing you cannot do is….
“Navigating your own heart’s openness doesn’t allow the ecstatic surrender for which your heart yearns.” – David Deida (if you feel something is missing; this may be your answer.)
Choose what you want your next exchange with a man to be and inform him, see how it flows! 😉

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